What About Your Friends ?

10:03pm


So i called my school this morning and of course they still "didn't receive the payment". Then my sister comes home and she has a really thin envelope in her hand which I thought was possibly my money order returned! So i grabbed it out of her hand, it came from my school. Inside was a receipt for $675.00 -__-. Do I have all rights to call and raise a little hell tomorrow? Lol, I won't though. I'm just going to be happy I didn't really lose that money!

Anyways...
Today I would like to discuss friendship. Well, arguments within a "clique" to be specific! We all go through it! I know I do! This whole friendship thing is just like a relationship between lovers, it's going to have good times and bad times, make-ups & break-ups, & maybe even some fights. But when do you know that it's time to really call it quits in that "friendship" or at least keep your distance?

I personally feel it is time to let go when you have to question EVERYTHING that you say or do around that person; what or who you bring around that person; If you find yourself judging your "friend", all of a sudden feeling as though they are just another person beneath you, there is definitely a problem!

One of the biggest issues in friendships is what I would like to label as "Snaking"! Snaking is basically doing things to hurt someone, or to make them look or feel bad in a subliminal way or just simply behind their back. When you catch yourself doing "snake" sh*t to your "friend" that you and your friend would usually do to them people "yall dont fu*k with". Um, it's over! We are all human and make mistakes, that's where the act of forgiveness comes into play. But um, let me tell you something, just like everything else in life there's gotta be a limit on this forgiveness sh*t doe! Look if you of a certain age, been through stuff and overcame em with your friends and you're STILL doing the same sh*t I forgave your for (counts 1 2 3 4) years ago.. WE COULD NEVER BE FRIENDS!! Lol. Once you know your friend has snaked you and it was some premeditated sh*t, trust that it will be hard to forgive and you will never forget! Please believe this is a post that goes out to both males & females cause I see yall with the weak ass "twitarguments" & bbm statuses. When you take your arguments with your friends public doe... it has officially gone to far and possibly hit rock bottom!

What are some things you may have argued or fought with a friend about?


What are some things you have forgiven but not forgotten?


What is the true meaning of friendship to you?

My real friends. Keep it real with me. Period! My real friends don't entertain or play into the drama. They attempt to mediate. My real friends don't call everyone their "friend, sister, bestie". My real friends know that truth hurts but learning the "truth is a lie" hurts more so they tell me like it is whether I like it or not. My real friends know that even if we go a while without speaking for whatever reason, when we do talk it will be like no time has passed at all! The list goes on! I LOVE MY FRIENDS DOE !!!!

People sit back & think... Who are my real friends? Why? What have we been through? What have we overcome? I mean really think? And check their recent "snaketivity resume". If they been snaking more than they've been loyal. Enough said.



I CALL THIS ONE FRIENEMIES !

We go back like waking up early to cop JOs/Matter fact we been hanging hard since play dough/I tell you everything aint see you since May doe/But you always there when I call my n*gga so faithful/But I meant to ask you bout what I heard/How ever since I been doing my thing I been acting like a bird/That's crazy like you gotta hella nerve/Supposed to support my success but you hating, and that hurts/Remember I used to spot you bread when need be/Introduced you to change took your life off repeat/Cause if I had it then you had it too/Guess you were highly intimidated my life's latitude/But snakes change skin started with your attitude/I know you reading this thinking that I'm mad at you/But I'm doing too good to bad u can't say the same/I'm content doe knowing I aint the one to blame....

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